The interior of a girl in love
Not sure what these ribbons are for, but they were beautiful. 🍂🍁 (at WSU Student Center)
Campus can be so beautiful in the fall. 🍂🍁 (at Wayne State University Community Arts Center)
Outside the DIA. I really liked it this day for some reason. Must have been the lighting. (at Detroit Institute of Arts)
ITS THAT TIME OF YEAR AGAIN. ALREADY THE HALLOWEEN TAG IS FILLING UP WITH BORING AND INSULTING SLUT SHAMING STUFF. CELEBRATE ANY WAY YOU WANT TO.
It’s getting clearer every second that you’re totally bat shit crazy, but you’re a beautiful, sweet girl. Fuck this guy. So many people are gonna love you.
Think about the first name you were ever called,
and then think how long it took until
you got called a pussy
or a slut,
or a bitch,
or a whore,
all of which are words that fall too close to ‘girl.’
Think about the first time you got called a ‘girl’
and they said it with a sneer.
Like it was a bad thing.
For a boy, it is the lowest degradation to get called a girl.
For a girl, it is the lowest degradation to get called a girl.
Remember, black widow spiders and female praying mantises eat their partners after intercourse.
Remember, it’s the lionesses who hunt.
They come back with bloody muzzles, dragging bloated carcasses as the alpha lion strides around with his mane puffing out.
Remember, it’s only the female mosquitoes who drink blood.
We’re the ones who do the necessary work, dirty our hands,
fuck or fight or both.
We’re often the smaller sex, which makes us a harder target
as we slink close and sink our teeth in.
Remember: we’re deadly.
You should be proud to be called a girl.
( 'Most Female Killers use Poison,' theappleppielifestyle. (via birthdaybaby) )
Back when we were dating, Robin and I have this running joke. We were the only two people in the world who found it funny.
Not many people know about this but this is very true. As enfjs, we care a lot about other people and often to the extent that we worry about being a nuisance to them. People like being appreciated. But for me, i think i need it.
I’ve always had a hard time convincing myself of my own competence and always relied on others opinions to make me feel better. I was the captain of my soccer team for a year and I’ve always asked my coach if i was doing the right thing, and always asked my teammates if i was doing a good job as a captain. I’ve always needed approval from others. The sense of belonging and being appreciated is crucial to me. I guess i just need approval to make sure I’m doing things right and that I’m not bothering anyone. Thats one of my curses, i care way too much.
It is often said that enfjs turn to dark thoughts when they’re alone. They often over think and over analyse things and in the end we just feel really bad about ourselves. I can totally vouch for this. When I’m alone for a long time, i often think about my relationships with other people, and over analyse them. Most times, i just end up feeling I’m no good for anyone and wonder if my friends genuinely like me or just put up with me. I know its crazy but this happens to me a lot. This is why i don’t like being alone. The slightest thought of doubt can keep me up all night. I need the company, appreciation, and approval of others to make me feel good about myself. Just wanted to let some of you know this. Have a good day :) Hope you can relate to this!